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manIt is rape:

when you do not receive consent

when he/she does not agree

when you force consent out of him/her

when you do not allow him/her to have a say

when you have to just take it

when you use your power/image to control his/her responses

when he/she surrenders to you

when you have to fight him/her for it

when he/she is not aware that you are taking it

when you intimidate him/her into agreeing to give it to you

when you use coy and other tactics to sneak it on him/her

 

It is incest:

when you are the daddy and he/she is your son/daughter

when you are the mummy and he/she is your son/daughter

when he/she is your sister, brother, cousin, aunt, niece, uncle, nephew, grandchild or grandparent

 

It is paedophilia:

when he/she is under the age of 16 years

when you are turned on by a person who is under the age of 16 years

when you enjoy sexual acts with a person who is under the age of 16 years

when you become a father to the children of children who are under 16 years

 

It is child molestation, child sexual assault, child sexual abuse when you intentionally touch a child sexually:

like when you use your hand to stimulate their private parts

like when you suck on a young girl’s budding breasts whatever the size

like when you rub yourself on a child until you get an erection

like when you kiss a child the way you kiss adults sexually

 

It is cowardice:

when you work hard to cover up your actions

when you hide from your actions

when you hide behind a technicality

when you refuse to accept responsibility and give account

when you refuse to apologise

when you refuse to act

when you blame others

when you deliberately divert from the real issue at hand

when you villainize the victims

when you continue to perpetuate hate against the victims

when you remain SILENT

when you use violence to cower the child into silence

 

It is unfair, unjust and cruel:

when your victims bear the burden of guilt and shame for the rest of their lives

when your victims cannot form lasting relationships in life

when your victims lose out on education and other social amenities

when your victims become zombies in society

when your victims cry every single day

when your victims cry out and are silenced into shame by the disbelief of others

when your victims are abused and rejected by persons employed in protective social services

when your victims sometimes have to see you every day

when your victims do not get the acknowledgement and the apology they need

when your victims live in fear; for themselves and their children

when your victims live in fear of everyone in society

when your victims find it hard to trust others, to put confidence in others

when your victims question themselves, day and night

 

Big Man, Big Woman, you have just been outed by your own inaction, your silence, your lies and the evidence you have left behind. The least you can do now that you are old, is to admit what you did, admit you were wrong and apologize for the hurt and damage that you have caused. Then, perhaps, might one consider forgiving you.

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